KloeStyle Nontrad Tourism

Some cool and funny little sights and moments walking around Istanbul. This man told me I'd shot a triple portrait, then invited me to look at his glasses.

















Mixing eras...















Don't you just dig Halloween plus Christmas in February?

Comfort Me

You did, all of you. You left me alone and that’s what I needed.
Thanks.

Madame vs. M’am vs. Hanim

Air France is so much better than Delta. Free movies, six or seven to choose from whenever you want them to start, free champagne and wine, good food, gorgeous stewards and stewardesses who call you Madame. French is just too beautiful. 10½ hours SoCal to Paris. Only drawback is waiting at Charles de Gaulle (for five hours), a very uncomfortable place.
I noticed a definite change once surrounded by Turks again, how playful they are, even strangers waiting for a plane are joking and enjoying each other.

Imagine This

You’re lying on your bed under an open window. It’s February in SoCal and the Santa Ana winds are blowing from the desert. The trees stand out against the sky, so clean, and the mountains that ring you as you drive to LAX are blue (when normally you can’t see them). Even if you grew up here, you’re impressed with this air and color and heat.
When/if/where will I see the people I already miss?
SoCal to Paris to Istanbul. Can't get more romantic than that.
See you back in Turkey.
With love.

Looks Like Another Sunny Day

What makes a person take risks? Like to move to another country, switch careers, make major changes to our lives? We can go through years of relative calm, and then what happens? Boredom gives away to one risk, which might lead to another? Do we get high on the drama of change? Does life feels more real when there is the possibility of failure?

Happy Vday

To all my loved ones back in Turkey.
XOXO Kloe
PS How do you like my new dress?
PPS This is not astroturf.

What I Came Here For

Carne asada taco, fish taco, hot pickled carrots and onions, tamarindo

You Can Never Be Too Thin or Too Blond

Have been shopping for three days straight. Saw my lovely hairdresser today, am highlighted and destressed now. She’s better than a psychiatrist. Plus new clothes! How can it be possible to be so empowered by the way I look?
Plus, while visiting my aunt today at work someone recognized me. From elementary school.

First Impressions of SoCal

Americans are so funny. They joke with friends and complete strangers alike. Turks are probably funny too, but I miss it because of the language barrier.
The food here is greasy and sweet. And we are fat, fat, fat.
The roads are perfect.
We have way too much.
The grass is green and there are lots of birds.
We don’t greet each other formally like Turks do, with a kiss on both cheeks and “How are you?” “Fine, and you?” We should do it, it’s nice.

Traveling like Hell

1. From our Anatolian City, 6 hour bus trip, in which the driver smoked (drivers are exempt from the no-smoking-on-public-transport rule) and a very violent movie was shown despite half a dozen kids on the bus. Stayed overnight in Istanbul.
2. Taxi to airport in plenty of time. Waited on the tarmac for an hour before take-off. 10 ½ hour flight to NYC, waited another hour on the tarmac. Missed connecting flight, along with 20 other Turks.
3. Stayed in airport hotel, had a GREAT hamburger and martini in the bar watching a black debutant event (girls in crowns and dads in fedoras), Persian barkeep, white jocks, too-pretty Asian girls eating peanuts. Made friends with a fellow traveler-in-distress, a Turkish guy from Bursa going to SoCal to study English for a few months. Must take him museum hopping…
4. NYC to Salt Lake City. And you guessed it, mechanical problems, another 2 ½ hour delay.
5. Salt Lake to SoCal.
Istanbul to NYC: 5191 miles/8354 km
NYC to SoCal: 2429 miles/3909 km
Total travel time: 59 hours

All Study and No Play

All over Turkey, in cities big and small, high school students and young adults are studying in dershaneler, or private night schools. This photo was taken in Bursa from our hotel room at 6pm on a Sunday evening. What are they studying? Most probably, English. It is the key to success. In university entrance exams there is an English test. To get ahead in almost every profession, you must have English. Turkish has no future (this is what Turks tell me). How can that be for a national psyche, to believe that your language may die?
However, most Turks who do know English are afraid to speak it with me. They think I will judge them. When of course, coming from SoCal, where almost everyone mangles English, I am the last person to judge.
Tomorrow, in fact, I’m going home to Spanlishland for a week, so I’ll be posting from the other side of the world when next I write. Hasta la vista, baby.
Love, Kloe

I Just Like this Photo

It was taken in Kutahya, a center for porcelain production in Turkey.
Today, in the space of a few hours, two galleries called to offer me shows. Unfortunately, the dates are both for March. I paint fast, but not that fast, to have enough to fill two exhibitions simultaneously. What to do? When it rains, etc...

Want Butter with your Meat?

We also went to Bursa for a few days. Turkey’s fourth biggest city after Istanbul, Ankara and Ismir, Bursa is a big shopping mall, but also an important historic center. Photo above is one of the tombs of a Pasha from the 13th century, surrounded by his wives, etc. Turks were visiting and praying in front of the tomb. The local specialty is Iskender Kebap, which is sliced pressed lamb in tomato sauce over flat bread, then doused in herbed butter, served with grilled green pepper and yogurt. Not exactly low calorie, but quite good.
As a side note, we’ve outgrown budget hotels. Our regular two-star dive in Bursa, which had served us well before kids and with babies, no longer cuts it: no wireless, no comfortable lobby (where one parent can get away), no storage in the room, no kid activities. Plus it’s not that cheap (about $80 per night). Better to spend more for more comfort. Duh!

Friends and Pigs

We’ve been on vacation for a few days with another family, half Turk, half Thai. Their younger child is Kid.02’s best buddy, and they are so cute together, like twins. It’s shy-guy’s first real friendship and we are relieved he has found someone. We went to another thermal resort so kids could swim (what else is there to do in winter here, tell me, please!) The highlight of the trip was taking two hikes in the snow. On the last day we saw a pack of wild boars running in the hills (they were being chased by village dogs). Then it turned toward us! Luckily the 20 or so pigs didn’t get too close, but if we’d been one minute later we would have come face to face with them on our path. How ironic, to almost be attacked by angry pigs in a Muslim country…

Turkish Çay

That’s pronounced “chai,” black tea from the Black Sea region of Turkey. Best in a small tulip glass with one cube sugar. Am seriously addicted.

Eating Thoughts

As someone who has been obsessed with food and her body almost her entire life, I find it very interesting how my kids eat. I have one kid who is a young foodie, who started noticing how food tasted and commenting on it at age 3. Unfortunately, this kid also overeats because he can’t stop himself. He tries everything, and likes almost everything, and isn’t really into physical activity. My other kid could care less about food. I sneak him whole milk and extra butter, but he’s the type that has to wear a belt cause his pants fall off him. He does like dessert, though.
In both my and my husband’s families we have relatives who are thin and others who are pretty overweight. So genetically the kids could go either way.
My own attitude toward food is complicated. As an ex-dancer (who was told by a ballet master at age 12 that developing breasts were fat), I am almost never satisfied with my body. Having gone through two pregnancies in which I gained 45 pounds each time, I have gradually gotten my body back (altered, it’s true), but with lots of work (I do understand why many women just can’t do it). I subscribe to two philosophies:
1. NWC= Not Worth the Calories. If something isn’t really good, I generally don’t eat it.
2. The First Bite is the Best. A neighbor and I realized one day that this is the way we eat: the first bite is really the only bite you taste. The first sip of coffee is the best, the rest is just warm. The first taste of chocolate is divine, the first bite of each thing on your plate is almost enough. The rest is just eating for energy.

Separate

Men and women don’t mix here much. If one man is with women friends, it is fine, but if a few men are added to the group, the sexes drift apart. The other day I came into a group of people on couches, and I sat down next to a man (with whom I wanted to talk), and was politely directed to sit with the women. And these were highly educated people! Parallel conversations then continued within the group. Another example: at a parent meeting at the grammar school, couples came in the door together, but most men dropped their wives off in the front of the classroom and went to sit with the men in the back. Reminded me of when I went to summer biology class at a Catholic school, girls on one side and boys on the other.
For the benefit of my Turkish readers, in America it is common, at a dinner party for example, for guests to sit boy/girl/boy/girl, and many times you don’t sit next to your partner. I like it like that.
BTW, in my next life I’m coming back as a man, but I'm sure you guessed that.

Friends and Foes

From the January 4 Vakit Newspaper:
Results of a survey conducted by the Baskent Research Company: 91.5 percent of the Turkish people see Israel as an enemy state, followed by Armenia (88.7), Denmark (85.2), while 77.1 felt the same way about the United States… (friends include Afghanistan, Palestine, Pakistan, Indonesia, Iran, and Egypt) … According to the survey, U.S. President George Bush, followed by Israel’s Ehud Olmert, are the most unpopular world leaders for the Turkish nation.

Things That are Cheap in Turkey (Relative to SoCal Prices)

Glass of tea
Bread (and it is really good)
Rent in our City (although I’ve been informed that it’s higher than it should be due to student demand for apartments)
Preschool
Produce in the open markets
Toys from China
Meals at family restaurants (no alcohol served)
Train and bus tickets
Pirated DVDs
Public university education

Can Art Rescue Me?

When people ask me if I am happy we came to Turkey—and let’s be clear, we came here because I got a grant of the kind you just don’t turn down in my world—I could answer both yes and no. For my work it’s been great. Other parts have been hard, and sadness/anger (for me, deeply linked) have been building up in me.
Yesterday I read Orhan Pamuk’s Nobel Lecture and took comfort. If you accuse me of anger, you see I am not alone. I have inserted the words in italics in this excerpt:

The question we writers/artists are asked most often, the favorite question is: Why do you write/make art?
I write/paint because I have an innate need to write/paint.
I write/make art because I can’t do normal work as other people do.
I write/paint because I want to read books/see paintings like the ones I write/paint.
I write/make art because I am angry at everyone.
I write/paint because I love sitting in a room all day writing/painting.
I write/make videos because I can partake of real life only by changing it.
I write/make images because I want others, the whole world, to know what sort of life we lived, and continue to live in Istanbul, in Turkey, in SoCal…
I write/make art because it is a habit, a passion.
I write/make art because I am afraid of being forgotten…
I write/paint to be alone.
Perhaps I write/make art because I hope to understand why I am so very, very angry at everyone…
I write/make art because it is exciting to turn all life’s beauties and riches into words/images…
I write/make art because I wish to escape from the foreboding that there is a place I must go to but—as in a dream—can’t quite get to.
I write/make art because I have never managed to be happy.
I write/paint to be happy.

Translated, from Turkish, by Maureen Freely

International Exchange

These two pretty women are my Erasmus students from Lithuania. Erasmus is an exchange program that allows European university students, including Turks, to study a semester or two in a different country. This semester I also worked with a Norwegian, a Pole, a Slovenian and a Slovak. I also had one American exchange student (a Filipino guy who was a total mystery to the Turks). All good kids.
On the last day of class I asked the yabancis what food from home they missed the most:
“normal soup”
“gruel”
“Hawaiian BBQ”
“carne asada burrito with guacamole” (me)
“pork anything”
“non-Turk beer”
“Mom’s cooking”

When I Need to Slow my Mind and Body Down

I think about the SoCal desert in winter. After it has just rained, how it smells. How the mountains are misty blue. The smoke trees are soft pink and the palo verdes are brilliant lime green. The ocatillo are bursting with red tips and the air is the same temperature as my skin. A coyote runs across the path, fur almost translucent in the early sunlight.
When my grandfather was still alive, he used to come down to the Chocolate Mountains and I’d drive out and stay with him. Those desolate highways. Those lonely, lonely people.

Fish and Cars

Yesterday I finally had the perfect meal I’ve been waiting for in Turkey, in a most surprising place. Parents of friends invited us to “fish night” at the guest house of a government agency here in our Anatolian City. Only employees of this agency are admitted, and by the time we left at 9pm the place was filled with men playing backgammon and smoking, their wives at home.
Here’s what we ate:
Soup and bread (my least favorite part)
Fresh orange juice
Grilled trout on a bed of sweet onions with lemons
Side of arugula and parsley
Halva with lemon (eaten with the fish)
Raki
Citrus, apples and bananas
Cay
Simple, no choices, perfect. Even kid.02 loved the fish.
Today for the first time I drove a car that we have rented for the week. What a revelation. I normally don’t enjoy driving in SoCal, but here I suddenly felt free. For four months I have depended on walking, taxis, trams, services, and friends, but today I was in control. Today I didn’t need to hurry or lug all my bags or freeze my nose/ass off. I know, I’m spoiled brat, but to have a car…

Career Girl

Here’s a friend, she’s in her late twenties, who works 6-7 days a week (private companies seem to own their employees here). She's very smart. She and her boyfriend just got engaged. But I’m a bit worried about her. She comes from a modern family. Her boyfriend’s mother and sisters, whom she met for the first time at the engagement ceremony–talk about stress–wear headscarves. So how strong will his family traditions be? My friend and I talk about relationships and marriage, but I am hardly one to give advice.
She’s read this blog and it inspired her to create her own (sorry, it’s private and in Turkish). I’m complimented. I also trust her. One of the hardest, cruelest parts of being an expat, far from your close friends, is that you have no one to confide in. I have faith in you, S, for both of us.

Things That are Expensive in Turkey (Relative to SoCal Prices):

Cars, even used
Gas ($8 - $10 a gallon!!!)
Meat (including a package of 8 hot dogs from the grocery store for $7!)
Potted plants
Gym membership
Canned corn
Electronics, good and funky brands
Filtered coffee
Apartments (nice one in our city, $250,000)
Paper plates and cups
Laundry detergent
Toys from the USA

Good-Bye for Now, Istanbul

Will you ever be mine?

Wide and Deep

This is the Bosporus, the thin waterway that separates West from East and divides Istanbul. How wide is the separation between the continents, for me, a far Westerner? Sometimes I cannot understand, and cannot be understood. And cannot be made to be understood, as much as I want to understand. Or maybe it is not my fault. I am trying, I have tried. Unfair, unfair.

Concentrate on Art

Yesterday on Istiklal Caddesi I saw a few art exhibitions, one that included work from John Baldessari and Jenny Holtzer (it was a group show on art and Freud) and another of some European performance artists. Today we revisited the Istanbul Modern Art Museum, saw some new Turkish painters. But my main success was that I got a catalog of my favorite Turkish artist, Inci Eviner, who I was pleased to find out is a woman. She uses many media, including sculpture, installation and video, but I really love her ink drawings. Her work often is about the body.
Here’s a quote:
Professionally, I do not think that women artists meet with any obstacles. Indeed, we outnumber the men. Unlike the female artists of Europe and America, we have experienced no difficulty finding a spot in the galleries and museums. On the other hand, we have an exceedingly muddled and agonizing sexual identity. For my generation (born in 50s), in particular, the female body was an arena for ideological models, which were insidiously connected to morality in general. The republican woman transferred the darkness of her own sexuality to men, in order to share their legal rights. In my view this was delusory. The body in socialist ideology, meanwhile, neutered the sexes and made them identical. In our own day, Islam controls women by covering them up. I feel that in Turkey the female body and the ideologies which surround it should be excavated and brought to light. Only then can there be a sound basis to discuss realms of freedom. If women in recent years have produced important work, it shows that they are traitors. They have betrayed the art training which was deemed suitable for their delicate natures, and betrayed as well their fathers, brothers and husbands.”
I’m trying to concentrate only on art and career right now, as the rest of my life is … I just got an exhibition for June in Ankara, so that’s good. I need to do a new project, maybe performance art starring me, Kloe, and critiquing an aspect of Turkish culture that is driving me mad… needs more thought.

Assassination

These are the flower sellers on Taksim Square in Istanbul, where I spent the afternoon with an old friend. When we returned to the hotel we saw on the news that a well known Turkish-Armenian intellectual and newspaper writer had just been assassinated on the street in Taksim in broad daylight. My friend, who happens to be Kurdish and very left leaning, explained that the writer was outspoken on the Armenian genocide question. The tv images showed him in his study filled with books and art. He took three bullets to the head.

The Jetson’s Lifestyle

We talk to our family in SoCal by video conference call several times a week. I can’t believe the difference this has made in us feeling OK about being away. Let’s just say the family was not pleased to hear we were going back to Turkey for a year. But now the kids chat with SoCal while eating breakfast in front of the camera; it’s almost like being at home with them.
A down side of video chatting is that my parents are making judgments about my emotional and physical state by seeing me—usually at 7am when I’m trying to get cocopuffs on the table, etc., or late at night when I’m tired. These are not my best moments. I wish I had one of those masks the Jetson’s mom used to wear when she got a video call (isn’t it weird the way some things stick in your mind?).
These same parents are arriving tomorrow and we are going to meet them in Istanbul. It still gives me a thrill to go to that Most Beautiful City, so exotic and amazing. I’ll be posting pics!

Why Did We Become Homeowners Again?

My God, there is a lot to be said about renting an apartment as opposed to living in a house. Like, NO YARDWORK. Like, if something breaks, someone else pays for it. Like, no $700 water bills because there was a broken water pipe that no one noticed. Like, smaller space, less stuff, less housework. Like, no alarm system that keeps going off for no reason.
Oh yeah, I remember, if you own a home you can have chickens…

100th Post Rant

Normally I don’t post more than one photo per day, but I want you to get the picture. These are just a few of the photo collages that currently grace our school hallway, a hallway I walk down multiple times each day. They are student work from a basic design course.
Now I know that 18-year-old college students, especially guys, think in imagery like this. They can’t help it. It’s the teacher’s responsibility to guide his students to make the right decisions. I like sexual exploration in art. But there is a difference between making a comment on sexual degradation of women (or men) and participating in that degradation.
So I’m getting all hot and bothered by these collages, and find out the teacher is a bit of an enigma (he doesn’t speak English, or I’d go talk to him in his smoke-filled office). He’s legendary for encouraging young students to let go of inhibitions, which are really present in Turkey. He’s a champion of free speech. A friend told me he’s even a bit of a feminist. But another friend told me he’s a wolf in sheep’s clothing, and “walks in the snow but leaves no footprints.” Meaning he’s a sexist pig who gets off on his young students.
In any case, I find it appalling that the women in my faculty are subjected to this imagery. My female students are less ambitious and more insecure than my male students, and this sort of stuff doesn’t help. So should I make a scene about this? I have already raised a few eyebrows with the conceptual assignments in my classes, maybe I’d be pushing too much.

And for Contrast…

A painting created by the head of my department and most senior faculty member.

IR in NYC—can’t wait to see you. Am I being cryptic? For a doll, I am very open (at least my grandmother thinks so, too much so!).
XOXO, Kloe

What Sells in Turkey

A painting of a colleague. His last show in Istanbul sold out completely.

Red vs. Blue

Here’s a cute item from the front page of Hurriet, a major Turkish newspaper, from last month, showing the culture wars here:
A Shepard from Konya arrived at a hospital “with severe pain and swelling in his testicles. An immediate ultrasound scan was requested, but radiologist xx refused to carry out the scan because examining male reproductive organs ran against her religious convictions. The patient was kept waiting until the morning, when Dr. yy showed up... unfortunately another headscarf-wearing woman… the 17-year-old patient only received a scan in the afternoon, when a male specialist arrived at the hospital. Doctors then operated on the young man, suffering from a condition called testicular torsion, and removed his left testis, which would almost certainly have been saved had the patient not lost one day at the hospital…” (not that the newspaper has an opinion on this rather racy story).
Sort of reminds me of American pharmacists who won’t fill prescriptions for birth control…

Down

Oh, everything was hard today. It was freezing and hail-snowing. I am so thin I am about to disappear, but I can’t think of what I want to eat. Our Turkish teacher canceled the last class before the final exam, so no review.
And Hubby performed a rescue on my hard drive with all my stuff from SoCal on it. Thousands of documents, none labeled or organized anymore. Every one has to be opened. There are letters I’d written home from when we lived in Turkey three years ago. Although we had wonderful experiences at that time, it has all been tainted in my memory by a family tragedy that hit at the end of that trip. I lost my brother, and everything is defined by this event, like 9/11. Sometimes I feel like I’m inhabiting multiple lives, past and present, Kloe and not Kloe.
I thought it might be hard to live in the same apartment with the same university furniture as last time. And sometimes it is. The couch I lay on for three days as I tried to process the idea that my brother no longer existed is the one I’m sitting on now. I can remember the pity I saw in the eyes of my Turkish friends. And I still regret my decision not to return home right away. That $3000 ticket would have been worth it.
Anyway, I miss him, even though he was not really good at life. I’m not so sure I’m good at life either. I am not really making good decisions.

Kloe’s New Year’s Resolutions

Get some new clothes.
Buy better wine (wine above about $10 is quite good here).
Get my hair done more often.
Don’t act my age.
Don’t discuss health issues.
Don’t talk about my kids in a professional setting. It hurts my career.
Get a job so support my other resolutions!
Take more risks. (And I took a doozy today. Can I talk about it? No. But I’m amazed at myself.)

If I Could Just Learn to Give Things Time

A few months ago I was feeling so alone here, discouraged that I was reaching out and couldn’t get through. Yesterday many Turkish friends reached out to me. My assistant gave me a nazarlik (evil eye for good luck) in a tiny box. My model offered her services in exchange for a small study (solving the problem of yesterday’s post!) My old friends helped me find medication I need. A new friend invited us to her birthday party this weekend. And others gave me warm greetings and Turkish kisses (both cheeks) throughout the day. Hubby is out drinking raki with the boys tonight, so I hope he’s happy too.

Naked Pictures

So I felt like painting during the holiday break. I have hired a model for my own work several times, but she’s a bit expensive, so I thought I’d work from myself in a mirror (I’m cheap). I’m doing these little fast paintings on paper to supplement my other work for a gallery show, as these nudes might sell easily here (well, more easily than my bigger conceptual paintings…)
But looking at them compared to some of the Turkish models, you can really tell which ones are Kloe, and I feel a bit weird about it. Maybe it’s a hang-up with my own body? I don’t know, but maybe I can’t show these studies in Turkey…

Winter Tourism

Afyon hisar (castle is up on the cliff) and town center. Too bad the castle couldn’t be reached in the winter.
Back in our Anatolian City the weather continues to be incredibly mild. I was able to do my Sunday morning walk around the campus (I miss you A.W.) in a sweatshirt.

Imagine This

You are swimming in an indoor thermal pool that smells vaguely of lavender. You dive through a tunnel into the open night. Steam is rising off the water. And falling on your head are snowflakes, so you are both warm and chilled. Your seal-son is bobbing next to you, looking up into the dark and describing how he is traveling in space among the stars. And because you are from SoCal, you keep thinking it’s not snow but ash falling from the sky. This is Anatolia—it both stings because it is harsh and melts you completely because it is beautiful.

Party Girls and Boys

Last week was party week at school, and I went to lots, as I’m shared around between several departments. Early in the week was the Painting Dept. (pictured above), where students have a rock band that is pretty good. Next day was the Printmaking party, more formal, as the Dean is in this department. Then Graphic Design, great decorations, and Ceramics, with hot wine. At all of these parties the profs socialized with the students, something that doesn’t happen as much in the States. Sort of makes a nice atmosphere.
Looks like snow again here. We’re off to Afyon for a few days, where the kids can swim in a warm pool. See ya.

Divas

On recent house visits, where the t.v. has been on as background noise, I’ve seen two rather fascinating and appalling concerts. The first was by Cher. She sang oldies, she wore wigs, she did her best to look 30 when she must be near 60. Her neck has no wrinkles and her face is the same mask it was years ago. Her dancers and musicians didn’t outshine her, and were not thin. Smart. But Cher was so funny in the old days, making sport of her beauty, and now what? How do we age gracefully? When do we bow out?
The second concert was by Madonna. I had heard that she was bringing back the highcut leotard, and there she was, not only in 1970s feathered-bangs hairstyle but also wearing a unitard! She’s muscled, she keeps up with her East L.A. dancers, but who can look good in a unitard? And a white one, too!
During this concert I was having a rather heated conversation with a prof friend about demeaning images of women I see around our department (I’ll write about them in another post), when Madonna stuck her hand down her pants and then licked her fingers. Which caused me to have to get down on bended knee in front of my friend and beg for forgiveness for my sex as he laughed his head off. Hell and damnation, one step forward and two back.

Milk and Honey

For the benefit of my foodies in NoCal, here’s what we ate on New Year’s Eve:
Red lentil and bulgur balls with fresh mint
Grape leaves stuffed with cinnamon rice and pine nuts
Stewed sweet celery root and carrots
Grated celery root, walnut, garlic and yogurt salad
Red cabbage salad
Green salad with pears
Feta cheese and olives (of course)
Roasted red bell peppers and spicy green peppers
White beans
Mixed nuts
Homemade butter from Trabzon with village bread
Raki (men), cabernet (women)
Cheesecake, gingerbread and s’mores (marshmallows from the States)
For the kids:
Pasta and butter
Milk and honey (literally)

First Day of 2007

Kurban Bayram:
Upon arrival for the breakfast, everyone got in line, from oldest to youngest, in front of the 85 year old grandmother. Kissed her hand and touched in to our forehead.
The kids received money and presents.
At the breakfast I ate one piece of liver to be polite.
We then visited other houses, each time taking chocolate. Every house served a plate of food and gave the kids money.

New Year’s Eve:
Casual dining into the night.
Kids all stayed up with legos and hot wheels.
Kids decorated gingerbread cookies and I made a gingerbread house (this was new for Turks).
Big slumber party, and woke up to a warm day that melted most of the remaining snow.

Now what will 2007 bring?